The very first thing you must do is change your thinking about women. If you keep putting them on a pedestal you will end up nervous when you approach her and she will sense the weakness in you.
The only way to attract women is when they start thinking of you as a challenge and the prize to be won. The only way for this to happen is for you to crank up the confidence enough that you give off the vibrations that you are the one in demand.
If you crank up the confidence factor enough it will be reflected in your body language. She will notice and see this as a challenge.
You must qualify your dates and be able to walk away if a conversation is not going the way you want it to. Just smile, wish them a nice day and walk. Women can't stand that and will chase you. Walking away tells a women that you don't need her and probably have lots of girlfriends. She will then want to monopolize you just to win the prize.
How do you do this? It is very easy, it just takes a bit of time and practice, since you are reading this what else are you doing at the moment?
This week just approach as many woman as you can and say "Hi."
Next week say "Hi, how are you doing?" some will answer some will just say Hi.
The third week ask them a question, any question at all that they can answer. Again some will answer some won't but you are approaching women. How does it feel?
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