Reverse Roles

The very first thing you must do is change your thinking about women.  If you keep putting them on a pedestal you will end up nervous when you approach her and she will sense the weakness in you.

The only way to attract women is when they start thinking of you as a challenge and the prize to be won.  The only way for this to happen is for you to crank up the confidence enough that you give off the vibrations that you are the one in demand.

If you crank up the confidence factor enough it will be reflected in your body language. She will notice and see this as a challenge.

You must qualify your dates and be able to walk away if a conversation is not going the way you want it to.  Just smile, wish them a nice day and walk.  Women can't stand that and will chase you.  Walking away tells a women that you don't need her and probably have lots of girlfriends.  She will then want to monopolize you just to win the prize.

How do you do this?  It is very easy, it just takes a bit of time and practice, since you are reading this what else are you doing at the moment?

This week just approach as many woman as you can and say "Hi."

Next week say "Hi, how are you doing?"  some will answer some will just say Hi.

The third week ask them a question, any question at all that they can answer.  Again some will answer some won't but you are approaching women.  How does it feel?

Perspective

If you are reading this you are probably a guy who is not having much luck dating girls.  Hopefully this will help you toward success.  Trust me you have a way to go - but learning how to flirt successfully is a lot of fun.

One of the first things to get straight is that women use body language to communicate as much as they use words.

Secondly men are so bad at reading female body language they seldom get the meaning or they think it means just the opposite of what the woman is saying.

Here is an example although a bit tongue-in-cheek:

From The Girl's Perspective:

I check out the room and I see a guy that seems interesting, I gaze in his direction to get his attention.  The guy sees me and looks away.  I look down to show submissiveness and look back up at him

He glances back and I toss my head making  my hair swirl around to the back of my head while giving him an eyebrow flash and holding eye contact.  I cross my legs with my knee pointing right at him, showing off quite a bit of leg and the next time he glances in my direction I lick my lips.  By now I am thinking "come on you moron - get over here and hit on me.  What do I have to do - grab you hand and lead you here?"

I finally give up and start on my second choice - this one gets it!


From The Guy's Perspective:
I see this really attractive girl and make eye contact.  She looks at me and then immediately looks down.  I feel like an unwanted jerk, I know that feeling very well.

When I look at her again she shakes her head and then quickly raises her eyebrows almost like she is surprised that a dirtball like me would dare look at her again.

Next I notice her facing me with her legs crossed as if to keep me away.  she is licking her lips as if she has some real dry lips, I wonder if I have offended her by looking at her.  Next I notice she is talking to some other guy and they seem to be having a good time.

You get the idea - just total lack of communication on the guy's part - no understanding the signal or how to reply if he did.

You should read 
signs-a-woman-attracted and women-signals-of-attraction for a lot more information and help in figuring out what women are saying with their bodies.