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Flirting is really about creating sexual tension with the other person. Flirting is the mating dance for almost all species. Birds, rabbits, elephants, whales and fish all do a mating dance. It is built into their systems.
Humans seem to be the only ones that have to think about it - usually the male human is the one who seems to be a wee bit unsophisticated in that endeavor.
Now to get the idea of why, when and how to flirt I will write some articles, I will re-publish some from article directories and put YouTube videos on the posts in, I hope a logical order.
If I ever find some really excellent books I will review them and tell you where to get them and if they offer an affiliate program I will take advantage of that. (Milk here on my home island is going for $7.50 a gallon at the moment. Gas prices will give you heartburn.)
I am working on getting it all together at the moment and hope to have more by tomorrow.
I am approaching this a bit differently than the ordinary guy, I believe that instead of chasing women - they should be chasing us!
Let me tell you a quick story of my older brother Chuck. Chuck was very shy but in his job as a mobile communications tech he ran into a lot of people.
He was installing a mobile cellular system in an area for a French film company and had to monitor it for a few weeks. He met some of the actors and asked one of them how he did all that stuff in front of the camera.
Jac told him he became the character so he had no inhibitions about doing the things he did. Jac wasn't doing all that stuff his character was. Jac also told Chuck that it was the character that the women desired, not Jac, his relationships never really lasted because of that.
Chuck started acting like he had always wanted to act around women. It took him a while to really refine what he was doing but he really succeeded. Now his line is "If you really want to go on a date with me you had better have a really, really nice car - I don't travel in junk." He dates rich girls and has them standing in line.
I went to his place a few weeks ago and his latest girlfriend was there - no Chuck. I asked her where he was and she told me he was on a date with a friend of hers. He had taken her Ferrari on the date. I asked her why, her reply, "He's worth it."
And he is - in his mind!!
Remember that!!!!!
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